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Finding Peace in the Noise

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A Guide to Living Well in a Busy World

Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the constant hustle and bustle of life? Do you long for moments of quiet amidst the chaos? If so, you’re not alone. In our fast-paced world, it’s easy to forget the importance of finding inner peace and living with intention.

But what if there was a guide, a set of principles, to help you navigate the noise and find harmony within yourself? That’s exactly what this timeless piece of writing, often attributed to Max Ehrmann, offers. Let’s delve into some of its key messages and see how they can be applied to our daily lives:

The Power of Calmness:

  • “Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.” This opening line sets the tone for the entire piece. It reminds us that even when surrounded by external chaos, we can find solace within ourselves. By practicing mindfulness and taking time for stillness, we can cultivate a sense of inner peace that will carry us through any storm.

Building Meaningful Relationships:

  • “As far as possible without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.” This passage emphasizes the importance of empathy and understanding in our interactions with others. It encourages us to listen with an open heart, even to those who may seem different from us. By fostering genuine connections, we enrich our lives and create a more harmonious world.

Finding Your Path:

  • “If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.” This advice reminds us that true fulfillment comes from embracing our unique journey. Comparing ourselves to others only leads to dissatisfaction. Instead, we should focus on celebrating our own accomplishments and living with purpose in the present moment.

Living with Gratitude and Integrity:

  • “Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery.” This passage emphasizes the importance of finding meaning and purpose in our work, while remaining ethical and responsible. It encourages us to cultivate a sense of integrity in all aspects of our lives.

Love and Compassion:

  • “Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.” This powerful statement reminds us to stay true to ourselves and embrace love in all its forms. It encourages us to reject cynicism and believe in the enduring power of love, even in the midst of challenges.

Finding Strength and Acceptance:

  • “Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.” As we age, it’s important to adapt and embrace the changes life brings. This passage encourages us to develop inner strength and resilience, while learning to let go of anxieties and fears.

Embracing the Universe:

  • “You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.” This profound message reminds us of our place in the grand scheme of things. It encourages us to trust the flow of life and accept our existence with a sense of wonder and belonging.

Finding Joy and Peace:

  • “With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.” Despite the challenges we face, life is a precious gift. This passage reminds us to find joy in the simple things and to cultivate an attitude of optimism and gratitude.

Beyond Words, Action:

This timeless piece is not just about words, but about action. It’s a call to live our lives with intention, purpose, and compassion. By applying its principles in our daily choices, we can cultivate inner peace, build meaningful relationships, and contribute to a more beautiful world.

So, take a deep breath, find a quiet corner, and let these words wash over you. Remember, the path to a more fulfilling life starts within. Choose love over hate, peace over chaos, and joy over despair. Take the first step today and embark on your own journey of finding peace in the noise.

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  3. www.awakin.org/read/view.php?tid=476#:~:text=Go%20placidly%20amid%20the%20noise%20and%20the%20haste%2C%20and%20remember,as%20well%20as%20your%20plans.

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Experiencing Gratitude

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Every morning, I take time to be grateful for everything I see. I express my gratitude to the universal spirit that guides my experiences. Experiencing gratitude is a key aspect of my daily routine. The concept of gratitude is not something that can be forced or achieved through effort. Instead, it is a natural feeling that arises from being still and allowing the world to find balance within oneself. However, in modern culture, young people are often taught to focus on work and ambition, causing them to lose touch with the present moment. As a result, they become less mindful and more controlled by societal expectations.

The goal of society is not for individuals to be mindful, but to be persuaded by cultural norms and beliefs. To become a citizen of eternity, one must go against the norm and be radical in their thinking, breaking away from the mind control of society. This means leaving behind societal expectations and focusing on the ideal, which will bring one into the present moment. The present moment is fleeting and cannot be held onto, but it is necessary for spiritual growth and becoming a citizen of eternity.

Gratitude is not something that can be forced, but rather it is a natural feeling that comes from the soul. Our culture teaches us that our worth is in what we do, so we focus on our careers and ambitions, and we are grateful to those who help us achieve them. However, this often leads us away from being mindful and aware of the world around us. Society prefers for us to be mind-persuaded, rather than mindful, which is why it is necessary to become “other than the mind control of the culture” to become a citizen of eternity. To do this, we must abandon society within ourselves and follow the ideal, which will take us out of time and give us the present moment.”

Practicing and experiencing gratitude

  • Keeping a gratitude journal
  • Practicing mindfulness and being present in the moment
  • Writing thank you notes or letters
  • Volunteering and helping others
  • Expressing gratitude to others directly
  • Practicing gratitude meditation
  • Focusing on the positive things in your life
  • Engaging in acts of kindness
  • Taking time to appreciate the trivial things
  • Reflecting on past experiences and things you are grateful for.

What are some ways you experience gratitude? Feel free to contact me on any of my social sites or leave me a comment below.

Take Responsibility for Your Happiness

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Have you ever found yourself feeling unfulfilled or unhappy, despite having everything you need? The truth is, happiness is not something that can be achieved through external means alone. It’s something that comes from within. This is where the idea of taking responsibility for your own happiness comes in. The statement ‘The purpose in life is to be happy. You are responsible for your happiness’ is a powerful reminder that we have the power to shape our own happiness and fulfillment. In this post, we’ll explore the power of taking responsibility for your happiness, and provide tips and advice for how you can start taking control of your own well-being.

The purpose in life is to be happy. You are responsible for your happiness. This personal truth hit home for me when I was working at a call center for AT&T business wireless. I was making a good commission, but I didn’t feel fulfilled because I was required to make calls in a way that didn’t align with my strengths and preferences. I found that I was most successful by building relationships with customers through email and providing personalized solutions. But the call center’s management didn’t value my approach, they only cared about the number of calls I was making. I felt like a slave and my happiness was suffering. I realized that I was responsible for my own happiness, and that meant taking control of my career. I decided to leave the call center and start my own business as a wireless consultant, working remotely and having much more freedom and flexibility. It was a risky move, but the reward was greater happiness and fulfillment. It’s a reminder that happiness is something that comes from within and it’s important to take control of our own lives to achieve it

8 Steps to Taking Control of Your Happiness

  1. Set clear and specific goals: Take some time to think about what you want to achieve in your life and career. Write down your goals and create a plan for how you will achieve them.
  2. Discover your passions: Identify the things that make you happy and fulfilled, and find ways to incorporate them into your daily life. Whether it’s a hobby, a cause, or a type of work, when you’re doing something you’re passionate about, you’ll be more likely to feel happy and fulfilled.
  3. Prioritize self-care: Make sure you’re taking care of your physical and emotional well-being. This includes getting enough sleep, eating a healthy diet, exercising regularly, and managing stress in a healthy way.
  4. Cultivate positive relationships: Surround yourself with people who share your values and support your goals. Spend time with loved ones and make new friends, and try to maintain a positive and supportive environment.
  5. Be open to new experiences: Be willing to step out of your comfort zone and try new things. You never know what you might enjoy or what you might learn about yourself.
  6. Practice gratitude: Make a habit of regularly reflecting on the things you’re grateful for. This can help you maintain a positive outlook and appreciate what you have.
  7. Learn from setbacks: When things don’t go as planned, don’t give up. Instead, learn from your mistakes and use them as opportunities to grow.
  8. Take action: Don’t just read and think about these tips, put them into practice. Remember that taking control of your own happiness is an ongoing process and it takes effort and dedication.

Practice meditation

Meditation has played a significant role in my journey towards taking control of my happiness. For the past four years, I have been practicing meditation using the Transcendental Meditation technique. This practice has helped me to increase my awareness, perception, and understanding of what is truly important and brings me happiness. In addition to my personal practice, I also participate in group meditations online, which has further deepened my understanding and connection to the present moment. Through meditation, I have learned to let go of distractions and focus on what brings me true joy and fulfillment in life.

Eating and exercising

Exercise and healthy eating have been integral parts of my journey towards happiness. I’m a self-proclaimed foodie and I love to indulge in delicious meals, but I also know the importance of keeping a healthy balance. I make sure to incorporate regular exercise into my routine, whether it’s hitting the gym, going for a run, or just taking a walk around the neighborhood. And while I may have a love affair with food, I also know the importance of not falling into the trap of eating junk food all the time.

I’ve come to realize that the key to true happiness is finding a balance between indulging in the things you love and taking care of your body and mind. And let’s be real, there’s nothing more satisfying than enjoying a delicious meal after a hard workout. It’s like a reward for all the hard work.

And the best part is, when I maintain this balance, not only do I feel good physically but also mentally and emotionally. I have more energy, I feel more focused and I can even sleep better. It’s a win-win situation!

So, my fellow foodies, don’t let your love for food hold you back from leading a healthy and happy life. Remember, a little bit of exercise and some self-control goes a long way.”


“In this post, we’ve discussed the power of taking responsibility for your own happiness and provided actionable tips for achieving greater fulfillment and well-being. We’ve talked about the importance of setting goals, discovering your passions, prioritizing self-care, cultivating positive relationships, and learning from setbacks. We’ve also highlighted how meditation and exercise and healthy eating can play a role in achieving happiness.

It’s important to remember that happiness is not something that can be achieved overnight, but rather it’s an ongoing process that requires effort and dedication. However, by taking control of your own happiness and implementing the strategies discussed in this post, you can make significant progress towards leading a happier and more fulfilling life.

So, don’t wait any longer, start taking action today! Set some goals, make a plan, and start taking steps towards the life you want to lead. Remember, the purpose in life is to be happy and you are responsible for your happiness.”